Comments on: Why Travel Won’t Solve All Your Problems (and Why it’s Still Worth it)

By: Steph

Steph — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 01:42:50 +0000

Travel can be physically, mentally and emotionally challenge and that does lead to self-growth for sure.

By: Lauren Quinn

Lauren Quinn — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 01:17:19 +0000

Like all have said: great post. Well-balanced. And I agree that travel has endowed me with a certain resiliency and self-reliance that I wouldn’t otherwise have–I know I’m capable of figuring difficult situations/languages/street maps out and getting through it. Some people do wilderness therapy to tap into these inner resources; I’ve done it through travel.

This Brave New Traveler post taps into some similar issues: http://www.bravenewtraveler.com/2009/12/01/lost-and-found-when-travel-is-not-the-answer/?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A%20MatadorNetwork%20%28Matador%20Network%29
Lauren Quinn´s last blog ..Hipsters Vs. Homeys: Oakland YouTube Travel Guides

By: AdventureRob

AdventureRob — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 03:58:56 +0000

This post is spot on. However a bit of discipline and you can enhance your good traits and suppress the bad ones, but you’ll always be there whatever you try or wherever you go.
AdventureRob´s last blog ..A Day in Luang Prabang

By: Anil

Anil — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 01:41:17 +0000

I think it depends why you travel. I like the changing pace of working while getting to see different places. Travel has taught me that people are fundamentally the same and that if you’re searching for something by traveling you won’t find it. A good way to solve a problem is to look inward; and a good way to create one is to do the opposite.

By: Nora - The Professional Hobo

Nora - The Professional Hobo — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:17:14 +0000

Just yesterday a fellow traveler told me that he used to explore the world in search of something external, when he realized that the search was really an internal one. He continues to travel, but is acknowledges that his physical location has very little to do with his personal growth now.

By: Adam

Adam — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 03:41:38 +0000

I love to travel and I think I learn something new about myself almost every time I go somewhere new (even if it’s just down the street).

I’m currently planning a BIG trip for next year. I’ve wanted to do it for a while (to escape Boston), but now that I’m actually planning it, I’m realizing how much I do actually enjoy my life as it is now. So I’m definitely excited to be travelling at a point in my life that I know I like who I am and where I’m going.
Adam ´s last blog ..Birthdays as Deadlines not Holidays

By: Adriana

Adriana — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 20:24:00 +0000

great post!!!
you are so right – we have to do the dirty mental work ourselves, but traveling brings out new things in ourselves, so it´s great to know how we deal out of our comfort zone. Plus – acquiring new culture never harms!!
Adriana´s last blog ..green olive, black olive

By: Steph

Steph — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 15:36:27 +0000

Interesting first hand experience. I guess if you are a jerk once place you are probably a jerk everywhere!

By: Steph

Steph — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 15:35:28 +0000

I think you have it exactly right. Whatever your personality issues or flaws, they aren’t going to magically disappear once you get one a plane. Self improvement begins at home.

By: Magnus

Magnus — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 20:52:05 +0000

I definitely believe traveling can change your life. But it got to be long term traveling. A week or two won’t do the trick. I would say 3 month as a minimum. The long journeys we made have had a life changing impact on our lives. Read more about it on our blog http://www.extendedworldtravel.com

By: Snufkin

Snufkin — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 20:19:02 +0000

Speaking from my own experiences, working and traveling abroad has helped me become more self reliant, extroverted, and humble than if I’d just stayed home.

However, some observations both from my experience during Peace Corps and just traveling in general. People who signed up to get over a bad break-up or divorce tended to bring that baggage with them. And usually instead of moving on with their life, the experience of being in a foreign culture did tend to intensify whatever issues they were ducking back home. Not surprisingly, there was a higher drop-out rate from that group.

Also some people are just so far into their own heads or egos that a change of scenery (no matter how radical) isn’t really going to shake up their perspective. Or worse, the people who assume that they’re “enlightened” and are therefore oblivious to how rude they’re being towards the people they interact with. I’ve seen this not just during Peace Corps, but as part of a delegation for Global Exchange.

By: John Bardos - JetSetCitizen

John Bardos - JetSetCitizen — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 18:32:55 +0000

Great post!

Travel is invaluable to your own personal development, but it is not going to solve your problems.

People prone to picking fights still do so abroad. People who complain about everything will find reasons to complain in paradise as well. People who drink themselves to a stupor every weekend will find even more opportunities for alcoholism away from home.

If you really want to get the most of your travels, solve your personal issues first. Stop the long standing feuds between friends and family before your leave. Get your finances in order. Eat healthy and exercise. Stop watching so much TV and invest in your personal development.

Then when you travel, you can focus on personal growth rather than an escape from your old life.
John Bardos – JetSetCitizen´s last blog ..Interview with Digital Nomad Carmen Bolanos

By: Steph

Steph — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 19:20:39 +0000

That’s a great point I didn’t really touch on (probably because I mostly travel alone). I can’t imagine the stress of traveling would do anything good for a troubled relationship.

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By: Akila

Akila — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 08:41:18 +0000

Great post, Steph. The interesting thing is that I think a lot of couples think that travel will solve relationship difficulties. You think, oh, we’ll go on a trip to Hawaii and come back and everything will be great. But, that’s not how it works. If anything, traveling puts a great deal of strain on a relationship because you are constantly with that other person.

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By: Casey

Casey — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 21:38:49 +0000

I really enjoyed this. Travel will not solve all of your problems. It can help some people, but many problems won’t just stay behind once you board a plane. Regardless, travel is awesome so get out there!
Casey´s last blog ..Swimming with Sharks

By: Anil

Anil — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 15:48:59 +0000

Travel and living elsewhere will offer a different perspective that one can capitalise on.

A new place will engage one in getting to know it, so one is occupied and kind of ‘forgets’ the problems one came with. It is after the ’settling in’ period that the ‘there you are’ can return.

Possibly having a set of ‘new’ people in a new place that one can relate to, share and bond with might help mitigate the issue better.

It’s anybody’s guess really.
Anil´s last blog ..The Mystery Woman

By: Candice

Candice — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 04:28:22 +0000

Ah, funny, my mind immediately wanders to travel when I’m distressed about something. You’re so right though, running isn’t the answer, but damn it helps.
Candice´s last blog ..A different Remembrance Day